Testimonials
Prior to meeting Sumru, I was suffering from the loss of my main relationships at the same time: the death of my father and breaking up with my boyfriend after a long relationship. I had lost the meaning and purpose in my life because of the grief of my losses. Her genuine empathy and presence helped me open up and find out what I wanted to live in both my private and professional life. I became gradually reconnected to my true self while accepting and embracing my sufferings and creating hope and inner strength for my dreams.
Sumru supported me to regain my trust in my unique skills and qualities. She also helped me understand my priorities and accept my vulnerabilities. By being aware of my self-limiting beliefs I was able to break up these self-destructive patterns and to express myself aligned with my priorities. Her coaching approach is inspiring and her perspective is uplifting. She empowered me to follow my heart instead of living in my head.
After working with her for a year I transformed my life into a new phase with courage, confidence and commitment. Today, I feel the life in all of my cells and gratitude for my "being" instead of excessively “doing”. I’m happy to say that I feel the joy of being and flow with whatever life brings into my path. Because I trust my inner wisdom to deal with new challenges I face and follow my growth journey toward authenticity.
Cigdem Okuyucu,
Computer Engineer, The Netherlands
After working with her for three months I finally discovered my false belief about myself, and eventually had the courage to embrace my true Self for the first time in my life. She also supported me to accept my vulnerabilities and take responsibility for my own growth journey. This empowered me to take action steps for self-care and self-regulation. I started to have a breakthrough and felt supported. This cultivated an internal shift from fear to love.
I appreciate that Sumru shared her love, compassion and kindness with me, while pointing out my blind spot without mercy. I now realize that I can take care of my own needs and take charge of my own feelings. Sumru is a loving mother and nurtured me during coaching. She planted loving seeds inside me which will make me grow into my wholeness. She shed light on the dark period of my life. I am so much grateful for her help in a very challenging phase in my life.
Grace Rong Zhang,
Business Consultant, The Netherlands
I was in a highly unstable period of my life while changing jobs, moving to a new country, settling down and discovering myself... It had been the most intense and challenging period of my life. Encountering Sumru in those days was almost a “miracle”, even though she believes that everything in life happens for a reason 🙂
She supported me through this difficult journey with her unique coaching style - guiding me perfectly to find my own questions and answers. I managed to be mentally stable and learned “accepting-adjusting-re-organizing” to integrate myself into a new culture. She encouraged me to discover how to love and be kind to myself in this journey. And she also made me feel gratitude for my “being” instead of "doing" - even though these concepts were not coded in my brain.
As a young professional woman, trying to establish a new life from scratch, I must say that without Sumru's support, I wouldn't be able to survive stormy those first months. Thank you for being Sumru! I am much more flexible, aware and self-confident to meet life’s surprises and challenges now.
Nilhan Uzman,
Pharmacist, The Netherlands
After moving to several countries, and a quite intense career and academic life, I decided to slow down and re-connect to myself. It was a great pleasure to work with Sumru in my reconnection journey.
With her great patience and firm guidance, I have made a significant improvement in my interpersonal communication competence and skills, instead of reacting to or withdrawing emotionally from social interactions. Only in 5.5-hour session, Sumru has supported me to cultivate a routine of practicing self-compassion and self-love through various techniques in daily life.
Thanks to her help, I became aware of my self-limiting beliefs and this mind-shift from fear to ease made me conscious about new possibilities in my relationships.
Most importantly, I acknowledged the negative qualities I bring unconsciously to life situations. This enlarged my perspective on looking more at the bright side of things. Her professionalism, dedication, and passion for her work are something one truly needs from a coach in this process.
Karlygash Yessim,
Contract Manager, The Netherlands
I would recommend the course Become Conscious Chooser because of the fact that you could be much more aware of “the secrets” of dating. Nobody explained to me as clear as Sumru did. She would help you to open your eyes and go into a different attitude.
Knowing your needs, wants and requirements before dating makes you mindful and successful in dating journey. Conscious dating mindset demands inner-work but for all you’re worth because your life purpose matters.
Marian C.,
Multinational BIZ Professional, France
It has been a very nurturing and transforming journey with Sumru. The content of the course Become Conscious Chooser has helped me understand the whole dating process and learn about dating traps and strategies. Thanks to Sumru I became aware of my dating mindset. I feel now ready to approach my dating experiences and relationships from a totally new perspective.
Verónica C.,
Communications Manager, Spain
I highly recommend following the course Become Conscious Chooser. It’s not only for people seeking long-term relationships but also for anyone who wants to get to know herself better and discover the power of making conscious choices in life.
This course helps you to take the responsibility to change yourself and transform you into a conscious chooser. The fact that there is a methodical, healthy and compassionate way of doing it is a relief and at the same time very encouraging.
Patricia Cardona,
Project Manager, The Netherlands
After leaving my 24-year marriage, the thought of another relationship felt very scary and foreign to me. Losing myself, feeling isolated, growing insecurities, and the list goes on, in which Sumru had all the knowledge of and tools for all the issues. If you are looking for a way to find the right partner for you then the course Become Conscious Chooser is definitely the right one for you. Highly recommended! You will gain genuine life skills.
Kristina Branden,
Interior Designer, Canada
The course Become Conscious Chooser has been very inspiring. I realized I never consciously dated or knew that I had the right mindset and heartset for getting into a relationship. The course gave me all the necessary knowledge, steps, strategies, tools, and practices to let love in my life. Listening to the experiences of other participants not only inspired me but also tipped me on what to avoid while dating, how to get into a relationship, and when to decide to progress or end it.
Füsun,
Executive Manager, Turkey
I found the course Become Conscious Chooser to be very inspiring. It changed and challenged some of my limiting or negative perspectives, which makes me feel more liberated in some respects. I feel more empowered as a woman and will approach dating differently.
I highly recommend Sumru's course; it is very informative, uplifting, and involves some very beneficial reflections and perspectives. Sumru is very knowledgeable, and I greatly appreciate her approach, which includes aspects such as self-love, looking at the masculine and feminine dynamics/energies, and identifying limiting or negative beliefs.
Carly Nichols,
Environmental Engineer, Canada
Working with Sumru during one-on-one coaching sessions, I made a huge step in my healing process. The most important takeaway I received was the awareness of what I never knew about myself even though I thought I knew everything about myself. Sumru guided me through self-discovery and understanding of my relationship issues with people.
Sumru gave me a lot of positive energy, which made it possible for me to create a positive and conscious mindset. Even though I had been working on my mindset before, there still were critical points in my life I was unaware of. Sumru helped me learn them and become aware of the challenges in the early stage of dating and relating I have encountered.
Olga D.,
Customer Service Specialist, Moldova
I warmly recommend Let Love In course as it is rich and complex in content, well-structured, presented in a professional and welcoming way by Sumru! Amazing package – full of practical transforming exercises, helpful insights and life wisdom. Thanks for this lovely and empowering journey!
Lucie Navaro,
Marketing Consultant, Czechoslovakia
I really like Sumru’s way and compassionate understanding while offering company during the process. I learned a lot about myself and now I am able to name my wants, needs, and requirements. For me, this is totally new and helps me focus on what is really important to me. Thanks for the empowering Let Love In course! I simply love it!
Birgit Friedhoff,
Professional Organizer & Executive Assistant, Germany
I have found great insights in the course Let Love In about myself, my behaviors and my reflection to the world. I think it is great for everyone to participate. It should be mandatory before going to online dating.
Julia Schiffner,
Dietitian, Germany
I found the course Let Love In to be very inspiring. I changed and challenged some limiting or negative perspectives. I had, which makes me feel more liberated in some respects. I feel more empowered as a woman and will approach dating differently. I highly recommend Sumru’s course; it is very informative, uplifting, and involves some very beneficial reflections and perspectives.
Sumru is very knowledgeable, and I greatly appreciate her approach, which includes various aspects such as self-love, looking at the masculine and feminine dynamics/energies, and identifying limiting beliefs.
Carly,
Environmental Sustainability Expert, Canada
With Sumru's guidance, I have uncovered a new dimension of myself—one characterised by increased confidence, stability, and self-assurance, alongside a clear understanding of my aspirations and the capacity to achieve happiness and contentment independently. I no longer depend on others, whether friends or partners, to feel fulfilled.
I have embraced solitude without apprehension, recognising my own values and boundaries while accepting myself unconditionally. I understand that to truly love another, I must first cultivate self-love.
Throughout this journey to find love, I have discovered a profound love within myself. I now seek companionship not out of necessity but to share the love I have developed internally.
Thanks to Sumru, I have laid the foundation for a life that is more peaceful, courageous, and fulfilling. I sincerely appreciate your presence and commitment.
Petek Olgun,
Labor & Social Security Expert, Turkey
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